Why You Should Stop Making Snap Judgments
Dictionaries specify that the word "judgment" refers to the process of forming an opinion after careful consideration. Judgments have their place in a court of law where, by social agreement, authority is granted to a judge or jury to determine…
When Friends Don’t See Eye-to-Eye
Did you ever have a really good friendship where everything was just rolling along until one day you hit an impasse that you couldn't seem to get past? I've been hearing a lot of stories like this lately and have had my fair share as well. So…
Generosity or Greed — It’s a Matter of Choice
"There is a struggle that is more interesting than pleasure or ego satisfaction... There is something far more interesting than what money can buy." -- Jacob Needleman
I find it fascinating that 92 percent of Americans claim belief in God yet…
What Is Karma and How Does it Work?
The term "karma" is often used with great casualness, with little understanding of its profundity. People dismissively say "it's my karma," suggesting that their destiny or fate is merely the luck or bad fortune of the draw. This use of the…
Karma, Karma Everywhere
Sometimes, I walk through this world and just marvel at the fact that we are all souls with individualized karmic agendas. Our lives and stories are woven together in a perfect complexity of clearing our individual and collective karmic accruals.…
Surviving Technical Support
Over the past week, I have spent more than 15 hours on the phone with technical support for Apple, Time Warner Cable and Microsoft. I've spoken to about 30 different people in the U.S., India and the Philippines, and I have lost my mind on several…
How’s Your Existential Maturity?
Existential maturity (is) a kind of peaceful acceptance of mortality
and of the relationship between generations of life
that mitigates the pain of our transience
by allowing an understanding of how we can die
without entirely ceasing to exist.
--…
5 Keys to Cutting Your Mental and Emotional Umbilical Cord
Do you feel like you are 5 years old again when you visit with your family? Do you feel like everything is the same somehow? Have you maintained the same role in relationship to your family throughout your life? The shining star? The black sheep?…
How to Be an Awesome Human Being
I always thought that babies should come with operating instructions and that parents-to-be should be required to pass a parenting test. After all, a license is required to drive a car. Surely a course in the basics of taking care of a baby's…
Understanding: The Third Law of Spirit
Anytime you allow anything or anyone outside yourself to cause you to choose hurt and to be disturbed inside yourself, then you are being shown how you can strengthen your understanding of the first and second laws of Spirit, to accept…